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Autism as a malicious generic program. Causes of its occurrence. Successful experience of the experimental group
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80 % of autistic kids are boys so it’s hardly surprising that in the first few months our test group consisted of mothers of boys.

But with time mothers of girls started coming too and all the girls showed results. We can’t say they are statistically reliable yet since we haven’t had many but the trend is clear and favorable.

Why Google and Wikipedia agree that autism is incurable

Now let's talk a little bit about why we haven’t learned how to treat children's autism.

Have you ever seen an apple rotting on a tree? It hasn’t fallen yet, it’s sick on the apple tree. And now attention, question. If the apple is sick on the apple tree do you have to treat the apple or the tree? The apple tree plus maybe the soil under it.

The apple tree.

And when we talk about apples, it's obvious.

But the same thing happens with children. They are just apples from an apple tree, and here they are, children-apples, they come and we start treating them. How can you cure an apple? It’s the tree that we should be treating. That’s why no one has been able to find a way to treat children. Because you need to treat the entire family.

Someone might say: this is shifting responsibility to those around; why should I treat the parents when it’s the child who is sick.

And this is such a typical reaction.

Why are you suggesting to treat me, the mother, am I the one who is sick? It’s the child who is sick. Treat the child! What am I? Someone crazy or slow? It’s my child who is inhibited / hyper aggressive / like this and like that.

No, my darlings. It's not the apple which is ill. The whole tree is ill. The whole family. If you've ever heard about Systemic Family Constellations and have an idea about what it is then you might understand what I'm talking about. Those who have not heard about this please go online where you can find all the information for free. You can download my first book about family constellations, “Housewife Dara" written in 2003 atIt’s written in an interesting, artistic way, vividly describing the ‘behind the scenes’ life of a constellation facilitator.

There are inexorable systemic mechanisms.

What kind of system am I talking about? I am talking about the family system now.

Where there is your dad, mom, parents, their parents, their parents, their parents, and the tree goes on and on. Do you know how many direct ancestors you have? If you count for a 100 years – it's about 5 generations – 32 people. And for 200 years there are 1024 people in your family tree. And for 400 years there are over a million, 1048576 people.

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