Великие дерзания
Шрифт:
Когда я оглядываюсь назад, то лишний раз убеждаюсь в глубокой истине цитаты, которой я поделилась в начале этой главы. Действительно, нет иного пути, кроме «великих дерзаний». Благодаря тому, что участники исследования имели смелость поделиться своими историями, опытом и мудростью, я проложила путь, который определил мою карьеру и мою жизнь. Когда я впервые поняла важность уязвимости и искренней жизни, я оказалась в плену данных собственного исследования. Теперь я знаю, что это меня спасло.
Список
1 Bren'e Brown, Connections: A 12Session Psychoeducational ShameResilience Curriculum (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 2009); Bren'e Brown, I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn’t): Telling the Truth About Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power (New York: Penguin / Gotham Books, 2007); Bren'e Brown, “Shame Resilience Theory,” in Contem– porary Human Behavior Theory: A Critical Perspective for Social Work, rev. ed., ed. Susan P. Robbins, Pranab Chatterjee, and Edward R. Canda (Boston: Allyn and Bacon, 2007); Bren'e Brown, “Shame Resilience Theory: A Grounded Theory Study on Women and Shame,” Families in Society 87, no. 1 (2006): 43–52.
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14 For the most comprehensive review of the shame and guilt literature see Shame and Guilt by June Price Tangney and Ronda L. Dearing (New York: Guilford Press, 2002) /
15 The following books and articles explore the relationships between shame and various outcomes:
Balcom, D., Lee, R., and Tager, J. (1995). The systematic treatment of shame in couples. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 21, 55–65.
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Dearing, R. and Tangney, J. (Eds). (2011). Shame in the therapy hour. American Psychological Association.
Dearing, R., Stuewig, J., and Tangney, J. (2005). On the importance of distinguishing shame from guilt: Relations to problematic alcohol and drug use. Addictive Behaviors, 30, 1392–1404.
Ferguson, T. J., Eyre, H. L., and Ashbaker, M. (2000). Unwanted identities: A key variable in shameanger links and gender differences in shame. Sex Roles, 42, 133–157.
Hartling, L., Rosen, W., Walker, M., and Jordan, J. (2000). Shame and humiliation: From isolation to relational transformation (Work in Progress No. 88). Wellesley, MA: The Stone Center, Wellesley College.
Jordan, J. (1989). Relational development: Therapeutic implications of empathy and shame (Work in Progress No. 39). Wellesley, MA: The Stone Center, Wellesley College.
Lester, D. (1997). The role of shame in suicide. Suicide and LifeThreatening Behavior, 27, 352–361.
Lewis, H. B. (1971). Shame and guilt in neurosis. New York: International Universities Press.
Mason, M. (1991). Women and shame: Kin and culture. In C. Bepko (ed.), Feminism and addiction (pp. 175–194). Binghamton, NY: Haworth.
Nathanson, D. (1997). Affect theory and the compass of shame. In M. Lansky and A. Morrison (Eds.), The widening scope of shame. Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic.
Sabatino, C. (1999). Men facing their vulnerabilities: Group processes for men who have sexually offended. Journal of Men’s Studies, 8, 83–90.
Scheff, T. (2000). Shame and the social bond: A sociological theory. Sociological Theory, 18, 84–99.
Scheff, T. (2003). Shame in self and society. Symbolic Interaction, 26, 239–262.
Stuewig, J., Tangney, J. P., Mashek, D., Forkner, P., & Dearing, R. (2009). The moral emotions, alcohol dependence, and HIV risk behavior in an incarcerated sample. Substance Use and Misuse, 44, 449–471.
Talbot, N. (1995). Unearthing shame is the supervisory experience. American Journal of Psychotherapy, 49, 338–349.
Tangney, J. P., Stuewig, J., & Hafez, L. (in press). Shame, guilt and remorse: Implications for offender populations. Journal of Forensic Psychiatry & Psychology.